With my unique roadmap, I help women remove their masks and find their way “back home”, to fully embrace who they are, to feel joy on a day to day basis and live a fulfilling life and create better relationships with themselves and their loved ones.
They are DUSHI
My vision is for every single woman on this planet, to see their reflection in the mirror and love who they truly are, not hide, feel ashamed or guilty, so they can find there is a Dushi within, they are Dushi!
ABOUT ME
hey, I am Lilia
Let me tell you my path:
As a child….
I have struggled to love and accept myself sinceI was a child, I even have written in my “secret diaries” about how I felt insecure and unloved since a young age.
I did everything I was supposed to do, as a “good girl”.
I was collecting many medals for being great at everything and anything I would put my mind to, you name it, from sports to relationships in general.
It looked like I was crushing it, except that I had a lot of insecurities in my own body, my personality and my teenage years were really about this quest of who “Who am I”?
As a young adult…
As a young adult, I distracted myself by trying to prove myself, achieving more and more, until I felt like I reached everything I was supposed to but still feeling unfulfilled. I had two burnouts in my 20’s and suicidal thoughts start circling my mind almost daily… because life was still not happening the way I wanted to be…I realised I was deeply suffering and was completely lost and unhappy coming into my 30th Birthday.
At that time, I was feeling I wasn't good enough, no matter how hard I tried, that I needed to constantly seek validation from others. That left me in a really dark place. I felt like I was living in someone else's skin, using a daily mask, feeling lonely, unable to truly be myself, even if my life on the outside looked “perfect”.
I understand how challenging it can be to fully embrace who you are without the inner critical voices popping up. Nowadays, I laugh about it, I did not need bullies, I was my own bully.
It affected every area of my life, from my relationships to my career as a nurse. But through my struggles, I've learned so many powerful tools and techniques that have helped me cultivate a deep sense of self-love and acceptance, to truly be my own best friend.
Now…
The journey I took has brought me to this moment, where I have not only transformed myself and my life, but have also guided many women not only to love themselves, but to fully embrace who they are.
I have done many certifications and training to gain the abilities to help others. Besides being a Nurse, I have become a life coach, self love coach, a mindfulness guide, a counsellor but self love is a journey and not a destination so I continue to improve daily.
My approach is based on self love practices, life coaching, neuro linguistic programme (NLP) and therapy.
With my unique roadmap, I help women remove their masks and find their way “back home”, to fully embrace who they are, to feel joy on a day to day basis and live a fulfilling life and create better relationships with themselves and their loved ones. They are DUSHI.
The word Dushi...
First time I heard Dushi was during a trip to Curacao.
Before that trip, I was deeply suffering inside, with suicidal thoughts circling my mind daily but on the outside, I still needed to keep a positive outgoing attitude towards my “perfect” life. Hearing the word “Dushi” completely changed my life and something shifted inside of me.
DUSHI is not only a powerful word, it has a meaning behind it, and the feeling behind it is transformational!! It has given me the light I was so much looking for, and through many synchronicities in my life, and really tapping into my intuition, I feel this is my calling. To help you feel Dushi.
I am here to help you through your own journey of self-discovery and growth.
If you allow me to, together, we will work towards a life where you can accept yourself fully and radiate joy and confidence and be DUSHI.
